Saturday, September 23, 2017

Challenges become Learning Opportunities

Oh Equifax, are you the reason I am filling out paperwork and notifying everyone and their brother that someone has used my social security number? And to find out while on vacation only made it that much sweeter - not! Thanks for the heads-up by the way, sure wish I had known sooner.

I am pretty resilient. I have conquered dragons - literally, it was my high school mascot. Unfortunately, I moved out of Michigan last year so I couldn't attend my 30-year reunion :(

I handle challenges. I research possibilites. I persevere. I learn. I teach. I aspire to help others. I always look on the bright side. 

Despite all the tough stuff, I still feel like I am the luckiest person in the world! 
Why? 
Because I choose to be. 
I choose to be. 
And you can choose your attitude too.

I need more time. I need more money. I need less pain. Don't we all. I have worked so hard and I appreciate everything I have - so I can let the bad stuff go (most of the time). Hey, crying and then picking yourself back up again gives you character :)

Despite money worries-which I believe will always be around in one form or another, I will Do Good, Be Positive, Inspire others to do the same, and Hope for the best. I have raised the most incredible daughters. I have a support group of amazing family and friends. 
I am the luckiest person in the world.

My Philosophy: LLLLEEH  *Live, Love, Laugh, Learn, Experience, Enjoy, Help

I leave you with words from Dr. Sukhraj Dhillon:


Keep looking on the Bright Side! Michelle :)






Sunday, September 17, 2017

My (fake) interview with Ellen

My (fake) interview with Ellen Degeneres by Michelle A. Moore, 9-17-17

I am writing this post because I don’t expect to EVER be on the Ellen Show, so why not have some fun and write a dream piece? In my world, I can do anything, be anything, and go anywhere, so why not be on the Ellen Show?  Here’s how it would play out.

We are two weeks into this season, Ellen’s 15th. It’s the same as always: fun, motivating, thought-provoking, and she makes me laugh while bringing joy to the world AND doing great deeds. By the way, my first articles printed in a local newspaper were called, “Good People Doing Good Things” when I lived in Lake Orion, Michigan. I am not a professional writer, but I thought it was important to let everyone know about the noble stuff happening in our community and possibly motivate others to do the same.

My goal in life is to help and also inspire others to be the best they can be, which started at a young age. I have always been called Smiley because I found that the simple act of smiling can do a lot of good and make people feel better. In junior high, I signed a greeting card with “Take care, Michelle” and people thought it was so sweet for a child my age to write ‘take care’ so I continued to use it. We are molded and shaped by everything that touches our lives. I have always been too emotional and compassionate, and I still want to cry when I see an expired animal on the side of the road. I cannot work in an animal shelter because I would take them all home with me. I donate and fund-raise for them, and I do adopt my furry friends from shelters so right now I have the sweetest, most playful and loving, three-legged kitty around. I named her Lefty Lucy, of course! See photo below.

Where did my upbeat, positive attitude come from? God, my parents, family, and friends - I’m not sure, but I’m glad I have it. It has seen me through a lot of challenges, given me hope, helped others, and I pray that it never goes away. I have been accused of living in a dream world, wearing rose-colored glasses, and not being realistic, but every day I get to choose my attitude and ‘looking on the bright side’ seems best to me.

So this year Ellen has brought on celebrities like Pink, her friend and writer of the show’s cheerful theme song (Today’s The Day), and Channing Tatum, who hilariously attended the Magic Mike show with Ellen and her crew in Vegas, was a good sport to fulfill Halle Berry’s challenge to dress up like a princess and sing, and also inspired Ellen’s new name game What is Channing’s Tatum? Those who didn’t know what a wenis was, learned something new that day. By the way, it is a term for the extra skin that covers the tip of your elbow. As a librarian, I believe in lifelong learning so the educational component wasn’t missed by me. Jessica Biel danced on to the show to the Dirty Dancing song with tWitch and set off a new contest by Ellen to give $10,000 to a charity chosen by the winner. *I will win this, see interview below. Ellen frequently brings on regular people who are doing good in their communities, because she supports everyone and brings attention to these important matters. That is exactly what I want to do too. Minus the humor part because I can’t tell a joke to save my life! So here is my (fake) interview on the Ellen Show, consult the TV Guide for show times!



THE ELLEN SHOW:
Music plays “Today’s the day I’ve been waiting for…”  I come in dancing amazingly well, because your normal/non-celebrity guests usually just walk in and give you a hug. My dance is even better than Jessica’s Dirty Dancing intro, so you vote me as the best normal/non-celebrity guest dancer ever and offer the $10,000 to my favorite charity!  Wow, Ellen, I am so honored and you are so generous. Thanks for not mentioning my two left feet and outrageously awful coordination! You say, “Well if I had known about it, I would have” You are SO funny and never let an opportunity get away from you.

And I say that even with the fact that I have 2 left feet, I found a way to do it. AND THAT IS THE WHOLE POINT OF MY BEING HERE ON YOUR SHOW, ELLEN. I am not rich and famous, I am not beautiful, but as a fairly normal person, I AM THE LUCKIEST PERSON IN THE WORLD! And I want to share this attitude and empowerment with everyone who needs it!

I AM HERE - TO SHARE THIS ATTITUDE AND EMPOWERMENT - WITH EVERYONE WHO NEEDS IT. J

I just earned $10,000 of your hard-earned money for my favorite charity. Despite the fact that I am an awful dancer and have a partial knee replacement surgery coming up. Mahalo, Ellen, for having me on your show. It is a dream come true! J

At this point you will probably say something like, “You said you’re not beautiful, but I think you are.” And when I stop blushing from your compliment-which may or may not have been my whole point of saying it-I state that everyone IS beautiful in their own way. I was married twice, so at least 2 men have found me absolutely adorable, wink-wink, but I prefer being single. And because I am single, and my daughters are practically grown, I was able to run away to tackle a new adventure. I earned it though. I worked hard and I made it happen. At this point you would say, “Yes, hard work is important. Remember that kids, stay in school.”

You ask “Where did your upbeat, positive attitude come from?” And I say, I’m not sure, but I’m glad I have it. It’s a part of me, it’s internal and must be from God, my parents, family, and friends. I feel blessed to have it AND I want to share it. It has seen me through a lot of challenges, given me hope, helped me to help others, and I pray that it never goes away.

My mom has an amazing green thumb, but I didn’t get that in my genes (which is my dad’s name by the way, Gene-not Eugene-my grandmas were cool ladies.) I did however get the “sunshine” gene and “do good” gene from my parents.

Picture a small, cute, happy home with me and my daughters, Celeste and Olivia, sitting in the living room. You’ll see a fireplace and TV, a popcorn machine, a slushy maker, and a comfy couch, but not one plant to be found. So my mom brought to me a lucky bamboo plant and it worked! Not only did I realize I was the luckiest person in the world, I ended up in Hawaii – paradise – and I never dreamed I would make it there, just like being a guest on your show. See how lucky I am? This upbeat, positive, optimistic attitude is a very important part of my life and I want to tell everyone, regardless of your situation or challenges, you can do this.

Dream it, do it; Shoot for the stars… – Oh, how I love inspirational quotes and breathtaking photos. It’s cheesy, and my staff at work would like to beam me up to the Enterprise every time I pull out a new one to share, but they work for me. I am full of advice: find what works for you and use it. My dad would say, use the right tool for the right job. Other advice I give, take care of yourself so you are more able to take care of others. Many people ignore this to avoid seeming conceited. My next advice: stop worrying about what other people think.

My go-to advice for everyone: Always Look on the Bright Side (name of my blog) and Do good, Be positive. Follow this and you can’t go wrong. If you do go wrong, learn from it and be better.J

You then say, “You are so entertaining and I could listen to you all day without having to speak.  I will just sit here and still be funny, because I am that good!” And I say, but Ellen, this is your show, go ahead and ask me a question.

You say, “You danced in even though you are not a dancer and earned $10,000 for your favorite charity, Congratulations. Who would you like to support?”

For years we have supported The American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life. What a great concept. People are fighting cancer 24 hours a day so it’s incredible that so many people will come together to pledge money & time to walk, talk, listen, work, fundraise, and celebrate those fighting cancer for an event which lasts literally 24 hours. Sadly, we have a few important personal reasons why we were pointed toward this charity. I will bring in my 2 awesome daughters who are huge fans of yours and also the biggest reason I consider myself the luckiest person in the world. (They need to join in the fun since this is a dream interview, after all.)

I introduce my oldest daughter, Celeste, who is an opera singer (and Ellen tells everyone, “You will hear her sing later in the show”) who married into the amazing Peake family, and now lives in Chicago, and then I introduce Olivia, my baby who has dedicated her life to serving and helping others by joining the Army, and who will graduate from the University of Michigan in April with a nursing degree.

They speak with you about Relay for Life, the wonderful people who inspired us, and the importance of doing what you can to help others. You gush over how amazing they are and they gush over how amazing you are!

Then I explain more reasons why I am the luckiest person in the world. I talk about how I divorced my husband after 15 years, raised our daughters to be intelligent, compassionate, optimistic, helpful people, found a way to go to grad school to fulfill my dream of being a librarian to serve my calling to help people, and still remain positive to be a cheerleader and inspire others. Life is a journey filled with ups and downs. Challenges really do make you stronger and everything happens for a reason. You say, “Don’t I know it, but please continue Michelle, this is fascinating.”

Since you insisted, J I speak about my philosophy L L L L E E H: Live, Love, Laugh, Learn, Experience, Enjoy, & Help. One of the many tips and tricks I have learned for navigating life includes taking a deep breath and listing 3 things that I am thankful for. I also surround myself with photos, mementos, and things I love. One of my favorite quotes right now is, “The best things in life are the people we love, the places we’ve been, and the memories we’ve made along the way” but I haven’t found the owner of this statement. There are numerous methods that are quick and easy ways to improve a life - and everyone can do it.

Since you find my interview so significant, you decide you want to extend it beyond one show and ask me to give encouraging life tips all week. I can’t believe it, but I say yes. This is exactly what I have been dreaming of: A real platform to spread the joy and reach a lot of people. Ellen, you’re the best. This is a fake interview and I can dream up anything so let’s go all out and have you ask me to join your crew and work alongside you to bring happiness to the world. I can also earn more money to pay off my student loans and bills so I can dedicate more time to helping people without the stress and worry of money. I am the luckiest person in the world.

Ellen, I have always dreamed of being on your show because I love you, your attitude, your courage, and your humor, which is so needed in this world – thank you, thank you, thank you (you need three, just one isn’t enough). I am blessed to be here because I never thought I was good enough to be part of your show, but that’s the point, everyone is. I am a regular person who, like many others, has made it through life by persevering, overcoming adversities, learning, growing, sharing, and surviving everything that comes my way. If I can help others with what I have learned and show that despite the challenges you can still see beauty in life by adjusting your attitude, I will be happy. J This is another reason I consider myself to be the luckiest person in the world. Even with challenges, every day I can count my blessings and appreciate life.  

You say, “Michelle, thank you for being on my show. You are an amazing person with a kind heart. I applaud your goals of working to inspire and help others in any way you can.”

I say that You are a true original and I am grateful you expanded your guest selection to include me and my daughters. Thank you for all you do - and I’ll see you tomorrow :) 

You finish with, "Here is Celeste" and she amazes everyone with her beautiful voice.